Practice 11. Personal Functions¶
This checklist helps each partner identify which personal functions support their life and relationship. Check which ones are developed and which need attention. Personal functions
☐ Self-care – health, rest, stress management
☐ Emotional work – self-reflection, self-regulation
☐ Self-worth – sense of personal significance
☐ Hobbies and creativity – music, drawing, sports, etc.
☐ Social connections – friends, community
☐ Profession and career – contribution, achievements
☐ Personal development – learning, skills
☐ Spiritual practices – faith, philosophy, meditation
☐ Novelty – experiments and travel
☐ Autonomy – personal space, time for oneself
My notes
What I do well:
What I want to improve:
Conclusion¶
Developing personal functions reduces the load on shared functions. When each person feels whole and steady, the relationship becomes more harmonious.